Author Archive: Christopher Kendalls
Christopher Kendalls
June 5, 2015
Dating
Jenna Jameson’s How to make love to a Porn Star while indeed a fascinating book, is more of a narcissist’s tale about her own ill-informed choices regarding sexuality and life-choices than it is a tell all book about the porn…
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Christopher Kendalls
June 3, 2015
Dating
Perhaps the women are picking you instead of the other way around. Do you go after everyone who gives you some attention and encourages you or do you have a firm idea of what it is that you want in…
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Christopher Kendalls
June 2, 2015
Dating
Friendships between the sexes are often on uneven ground. Ideally, men and women could remain friends forever and the friendship would never evolve into anything else unless it was agreed upon and it could happen mutually. But friendship is often…
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Christopher Kendalls
May 31, 2015
Communication
As a passive-aggressive person myself who often ends up dealing with other passive-aggressive people I offer a few suggestions on how to deal with others like me, and what I’ve learned over the years. The passive-aggressive often come across in…
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Christopher Kendalls
May 29, 2015
Marriage and Divorce
From the looks of the responses on this topic it is obvious that men either do not know a whole lot about it or aren’t the ones that feel that they aren’t getting enough in their marriage. This says a…
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Christopher Kendalls
May 19, 2015
Marriage and Divorce
I wanted to write to one of those really interesting titles dealing with how to deal with a cheating spouse and a how to improve your sex life. But quite honestly there aren’t any clear cut ways to deal with…
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Christopher Kendalls
May 11, 2015
Clothes
Being a fashion snob I have some odd ideas on when it is, and is not appropriate to wear a t-shirt. Yet I do not think that a t-shirt is inappropriate for most situations in fact given the laid back…
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Christopher Kendalls
May 7, 2015
Dating
This continues to be a hot topic, it was for my generation, seems to be for the generation that proceeded it and probably will be for the children of the generation proceeding my generation. I used to have really strong…
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Christopher Kendalls
May 7, 2015
Clothes
A man’s wardrobe must consist of the right items to give the right look at a price that is affordable for his wardrobe. Here are some key items that a man should have in his wardrobe, the right way to…
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Christopher Kendalls
May 4, 2015
Communication
It is crucial that you learn to find comfort when talking to strangers on a daily basis. There are a lot of advantages that come with being able to do so with ease. First off people that are very successful…
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Christopher Kendalls
April 27, 2015
Clothes
There is a distinct difference between khakis and chinos, though the difference can be slight. Khaki is a color as well as a fabric. Chino is also a fabric, but usually lighter in weight and more formal than khakis. Chinos…
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Christopher Kendalls
April 19, 2015
Dating
On the surface infidelity is as simple as being engaged in any behavior that you do not want your partner to know about. In reality the ease of the opportunity that is presented, and the fact that one thinks that…
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Christopher Kendalls
April 14, 2015
Friends and Peers
Treat others the way that you would want to be treated. It sounds cliche, but how many of us actually do that? What type of friendship do you want to have, do you need your friend to approve, do you…
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Christopher Kendalls
April 11, 2015
Style and Beauty - Other
Are you in a rut, are you in need of a makeover or need to change your look so that you stand out instead of blend into the crowd? There are some simple, yet effective ways of changing your look…
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Christopher Kendalls
April 8, 2015
Shoes
DSW is a great shoe company that started as a single store in Dublin Ohio back in 1991. They have now opened up to 250 stores. They are also synonymous with Value City Department Stores, another Ohio based retailer out…
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Christopher Kendalls
March 31, 2015
Marriage and Divorce
There are some rather obvious ways to prevent having an affair; not spending time alone with other people, communicating openly about what the objectives and goals of the relationship are, respecting your partner by not participating in activities that you…
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Christopher Kendalls
March 26, 2015
Marriage and Divorce
Marriage is something to be appreciated one day at a time, with each moment without too much of an emphasis on the long term. You can take it in little pieces or try to wrap your mind around the bigger…
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Christopher Kendalls
March 18, 2015
Skin and Body
Everyone wants to fit in, first and foremost, fashion is about finding a class of individuals to fit in with before it is about individual style. The need for acceptance will ultimately determine the path to fashion that people will…
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Christopher Kendalls
March 16, 2015
Marriage and Divorce
Why do we get divorced; it has been said that over half of all marriages will end in divorce, and the statistics for the first few years, yeah it takes a prayer to even remotely consider getting past it. We’ve…
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Christopher Kendalls
March 6, 2015
Dating
The one-night-stand, is there a right way to go about it, how do people feel about it and is it the right thing to do? It will mean different things to different people, some people are insensitive and are very…
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Christopher Kendalls
March 4, 2015
Clothes
There are a number of different ways to shop for designer clothing online. The most popular method involves going to the websites of stores that you are accustomed to shopping at, such as Macy’s, Nordstroms or Neiman Marcus, or Dr….
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Christopher Kendalls
March 4, 2015
Dating
Everyone talks about the dangers of running into physical altercations when Internet intimacy turns ugly; being gagged with an apple and hogtied and robbed and left in a hotel room in the ghetto, that type of stuff. Or being stalked…
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Christopher Kendalls
March 4, 2015
Dating
I wouldn’t put all of my eggs in the online dating site basket; many of the people there do not represent themselves honestly and others are married, and using the dating sites to troll for people they should have the…
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Christopher Kendalls
March 4, 2015
Dating
What is often misunderstood about online relationships is that they aren’t the traditional, easy to define, stereotypical relationships that normally exist. So if you are looking to duplicate your real life efforts online you may find more disappointment than anything…
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Christopher Kendalls
February 27, 2015
Style and Beauty - Other
When beauty is lacking on the inside it tends to manifest itself in an unhealthy fixation on outward beauty to compensate for what one lacks that should make them feel beauty. A lot of times an aggressive outward fixation on…
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Christopher Kendalls
February 23, 2015
Marriage and Divorce
After 9 years of marriage I have a few ideas on how the transition from dating to marriage can run smoothly: 1.) Keep a short engagement. Long engagements do not necessarily lead to successful marriages, in fact, if the relationship…
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Christopher Kendalls
February 15, 2015
Communication
Good people can be found everywhere. That said it’s not where, as in physically where, that you go to find a good man or woman. The where is more of a consideration of where your personal state of mind is…
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Christopher Kendalls
February 15, 2015
Communication
Vulnerability is a very difficult thing for a man. For some it even goes as far as to question their masculinity. The men I grew up around seemed to come across as having had a hyper-masculinity at times; not always…
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Christopher Kendalls
February 12, 2015
Communication
If she really wants to know and he isn’t ashamed to talk about it and has really moved past it. Because a woman asking about your romantic past can be a way in which she is really learning more about…
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Christopher Kendalls
February 11, 2015
Marriage and Divorce
Is it really fair to continue on with an affair, and how long can you keep that up and on what level? We have so many ways to justify having an affair; we say that we can be completely upfront…
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