November 18, 2015 Marriage and Divorce
Has anyone really asked the question of how serious black men are about being married to black woman, or any to anyone for that matter? Because if some black woman never marry, or do so really late in the game,…
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We’re afraid of the answer to that question, to really know just how much women want it. Do you honestly think that everything is about a woman having that deep soul connection with a man, of course not. There are…
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I am only with my true love because I had a serious sense of who I am and what I will and won’t do for the relationships, what compromises of who I am are worth taking. When I bent over…
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November 6, 2015 Communication
Long distance relationships can be difficult to wrap your mind around because you can’t stand to be away from that person. Relationships in which every waking moment is spent next to that person are truly put to the test when…
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I actually wrote for a fashion blog months ago. It was an exciting and challenging time for me as a writer because I am used to writing heavy handed opinion pieces where I can experiment with being complex or writing…
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October 26, 2015 Marriage and Divorce
I always had in mind what I thought that the perfect relationship was going to be, and once I found that person to share it with I was going to execute that plan with perfection and have the love of…
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I’ve done the baggy pants, wearing up to 6 sizes larger than what fits me and while it is comfortable it gets a bit old after a while. A lot of the interest in baggy pants really depends on where…
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October 15, 2015 Skin and Body
A lot of men love skinny women, I mean they really love skinny women they have very idealistic ideas about skinny women. In fact a lot of women, skinny women included, would take offense to some of the reasons why…
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A relationship without truth is built on a questionable foundation, and you will forever cover your tracks and follow one lie with another to keep the relationship going. What is worse, is that the other person will have fallen in…
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October 11, 2015 Marriage and Divorce
The Internet offers true anonymity in cheating, which is something that was very difficult to do before. In the early days, pre-Internet, there were chat rooms and the electronic equivalent of pen pals through the network. People would find individuals…
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October 11, 2015 Marriage and Divorce
Not at all, if anything there may be a temporary boost to your self esteem or it may address certain needs but you are going to feel even worse at the end of the day. This is the primary problem…
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The first sign that this guy is a deadbeat is that if you do not do it, it doesn’t get done. It’s that simple; I do not care what material things he brought into the relationship or how he appears…
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A long distance relationship can work provided that people are willing to redefine and adjust their perceptions of the traditional notion of what a relationship entails. You have to be willing to include methods of communicating your desires and needs…
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Exactly what are the challenges of dating a married man? It is the type of question that you have to seriously ask yourself exactly why you are even taking into consideration, answering such a question, to begin with. It is…
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August 25, 2015 Friends and Peers
Too often truly good people are looked over because quite honestly, good is boring, good is hard and good often requires a commitment to the end of the day that the average person isn’t that interested in at the moment,…
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Ok I have some more dating advice someone is sure to disagree with to disseminate. Not that it isn’t true, but, well it’s just wrong. But it works. Say for example she tells you “let’s just be friends”. Of course…
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August 20, 2015 Friends and Peers
The weird thing about interracial friendships is that they’re usually with the person you would expect to get along with the least, that one that you intentionally tried to avoid that you figured that you would have absolutely nothing in…
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August 15, 2015 Friends and Peers
In the movie “Why Did I Get Married” the theory of the 80/20 rule is posited. It suggests that men sacrifice 80% of what they have at home for 20% of what they do not have in their relationships, which…
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This really depends on the girl in question, and more importantly, whether you truly are comfortable being the metrosexual, because a lot of us aren’t. A lot more of us are the metrosexual because we sold into the hype that…
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Men have many reasons for dating older women, some involve the women themselves, who may have a predilection for a younger man and some involve their own hangups about dating women their own age. There are times when the differences…
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You see this person every single day, throughout the day. In fact, if you had your chance there wouldn’t be a moment spent without them. Has the relationship ever been through a real challenge, where you were forced to be…
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Women, play hard to get, keep us interested, but know how to do it. Be nice about it, we aren’t expecting anything to happen on that first date, when we first meet you. We know that you already know if…
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So often we go from one relationship to the next because we are afraid to be alone. When we’re alone, we have to face our demons, look at ourselves in the mirror and ask ourselves who we are, what we’ve…
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Everyone knows how to flirt with men and get their attention, but how do you really drive them crazy and have them wanting you again and again? What is the differentiation between being friendly and communicating that you are seriously…
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Black men really do want to date black women, but a lot of the reasons why they seem to have issues with black women boil down to identity politics. There are a lot of misconceptions and half truths about what…
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Older women really have their stuff together, bottom line. If you’re young and you’re talking to someone else who is young and neither of you really know what you’re doing but you both have a laundry list of what you…
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Psychology today has an interesting article that talks about how conclusions in our dating approaches may actually be good for us. It sort of blows the lid off of much of the dating advice found in magazines as varied as…
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June 18, 2015 Marriage and Divorce
When you first get married you never think about the possibilities of being in a sexless marriage. Particularly if you two never lived together. When you have been with your partner for about 2 years or more chances are you…
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June 17, 2015 Marriage and Divorce
How do we know if we’re in a low sex marriage, is it a problem or is it just a matter of perception. Well, that question alone is usually a clear indicator that you are in a low sex marriage….
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June 15, 2015 Marriage and Divorce
That’s assuming that she has that much of an issue with doing the housework in the first place. In my own marriage we both do the housework, in fact she works 2 part time jobs so I get to do…
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