Author Archive: Carol Gioia
Carol Gioia
August 14, 2014
Family
The world at large does not mean a great deal to young children. They are more concerned with the small world of their home, family and friends. If children get enough of what they need to survive and thrive, they…
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Carol Gioia
August 8, 2014
Clothes
Bucking the trend of most designers to give generous perks to celebrities for wearing their clothes in public, Abercrombie & Fitch is allegedly willing to pay Jersey Shore star, Michael “The Situation” Sorrentino not to wear their trendy clothing line….
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Carol Gioia
August 7, 2014
Marriage and Divorce
Romance in a marriage waxes and wanes. In the early days, romance is a given. You have entered into a committed union with the person you most love and admire. Your primary interest is to spend every possible moment with…
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Carol Gioia
July 20, 2014
Marriage and Divorce
A healthy marriage is built on a solid foundation of loving commitment, with four pivotal cornerstones, or anchors, to keep it secure and longstanding. While marriage requires adequate levels of trust, respect and affection, without the four integral cornerstones of communication, consideration,…
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Carol Gioia
July 17, 2014
Communication
You have a generous spirit and enjoy helping others, but in an honest moment might confess that sometimes you feel taken advantage of, or used. Allowing others to take advantage of your good nature is a direct route toward becoming…
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Carol Gioia
July 13, 2014
Clothes
Kid’s clothing can be expensive when you factor in growth spurts, special occasions and specialty wear for specific activities. It might seem as if you are constantly shopping in an effort to keep your children well-dressed and your budget is liable…
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Carol Gioia
July 9, 2014
Friends and Peers
If you have followed all the tips and social rules for making new friends and you still find yourself alone much of the time, perhaps you need to take an introspective look at your communication techniques. Making new friends is…
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Carol Gioia
July 9, 2014
Friends and Peers
Some people form friendships easily and others have a harder time interacting socially, requiring a little more effort on their part in order to make friends. Seniors who were outgoing and social in their earlier years are potentially adept at…
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Carol Gioia
July 3, 2014
Marriage and Divorce
Marriage is the ultimate commitment. Two individuals vowing to love and honor one another, for better or worse. While the vows are not taken lightly, no bride and groom dwells on the phrase, For better or worse. They are in…
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Carol Gioia
June 24, 2014
Family
If you are entertaining Muslim guests, all the traditional rules of being a good host or hostess apply; be warm, caring, gracious and welcoming. Muslims have specific traditions and customs but your guests will not expect you to know the details…
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Carol Gioia
June 24, 2014
Family
Many families consider their pet as dear to them as their human family members. It is no wonder, when you consider the many benefits derived from having a pet in the household. Of course, pets are a lot of work…
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Carol Gioia
June 23, 2014
Family
Family closeness is something many aspire to achieve, but the demands of individual family members’ hectic lifestyles can sabotage the best intentions of spending time together. It requires strategic planning and commitment on the part of all family members to…
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Carol Gioia
June 23, 2014
Family
In some families one partner fulfills the role of financial provider, going off to a job every day, and the other partner stays at home, fulfilling the role of family nurturer. In today’s economy, such a division of responsibility is…
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Carol Gioia
June 23, 2014
Family
The prevalence of divorce and separation in today’s society has created high numbers of single parent families. When a marriage fails it is often the father who moves out of the family home. When a father is not living under…
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Carol Gioia
June 22, 2014
Family
Some men are well-organized, having a place for everything they own and being conscientious about returning an item to its place after use. Other men leave their possessions strewn about, as if expecting some mythical maid to pick up after…
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Carol Gioia
June 8, 2014
Crisis Support
There are three main methods of final disposition of a deceased body; cremation, the disposal of a corpse by burning, in ground burial and above the ground entombment. Cremation has had a huge surge in popularity in recent years for…
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Carol Gioia
June 7, 2014
Dating
Infatuation can be a prelude to true love, but how can one be sure? Sometimes infatuation is just that; a brief interlude of affection and passion for another that could potentially dissipate over time. Perhaps the biggest reason for not…
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Carol Gioia
May 24, 2014
Communication
Any time you want to convey a heartfelt message, it is better to do so with a handwritten note, instead of emailing or telephoning. Modern technological conveniences, such as email, text messaging, telephoning and using social networks like face book, are…
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Carol Gioia
May 24, 2014
Communication
Email is an ideal format for quick messages and reminders. For real communication, however, there is no match for the handwritten letter. Writing a letter requires taking time and putting thought into what you are going to say, exuding warmth…
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Carol Gioia
May 14, 2014
Friends and Peers
When you move into a new house or apartment, the sooner you become acquainted with your neighbors, the sooner you will truly feel at home. Some of your new neighbors might take the initiative and come by to introduce themselves….
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Carol Gioia
May 4, 2014
Family
Often family members take one another for granted, making tactless comments and behaving in thoughtless ways that would be unacceptable to friends and acquaintances. Sometimes the people closest to you take liberties in the name of “love.” No matter how much…
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Carol Gioia
May 4, 2014
Family
The family life cycle refers to the various stages of life an individual, as a member of a family, passes through from childhood to retirement. The stages of the family life cycle are: – independence (young, single adult) – marriage…
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Carol Gioia
May 4, 2014
Family
The various stages of life passed through from childhood to retirement are referred to as a person’s life cycle. In each life cycle stage there are challenges that cause one to grow intellectually and emotionally, gaining new skills. Acquiring those…
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Carol Gioia
April 30, 2014
Marriage and Divorce
Divorce is a sad and all too frequent occurrence nowadays. It is destressing to witness the breakup of a previously loving relationship. As anxiety-provoking as the breakup of a marriage might be to the two principle parties, when there are…
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Carol Gioia
April 20, 2014
Crisis Support
Mourning is a healthy process to facilitate coming to terms with the loss of a precious human life. When someone dies, it is appropriate and natural to mourn the loss. How grief is expressed is a personal matter. Some choose…
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Carol Gioia
April 19, 2014
Crisis Support
If you are having thoughts of suicide, taking immediate action is imperative. You may feel worthless and in so much pain that life no longer seems worth living. You may have already withdrawn from interaction with others, isolating yourself from…
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Carol Gioia
April 10, 2014
Family
When it comes to raising children, everyone has their own style of parenting and it is not uncommon for family members to critique one another’s child-rearing techniques. It can be frustrating to be criticized or lectured about how well you…
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Carol Gioia
April 6, 2014
Communication
Conflict is an inevitable part of any close relationship. You cannot agree all of the time, even when you are soul mates. Occasionally, disagreements might escalate into heated arguments resulting in hurt feelings or resentment by one or both of…
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Carol Gioia
April 6, 2014
Communication
It is easy to become intimidated, and even fearful, when someone shouts at you. Some people with poor communication skills resort to shouting when they are angry, frustrated or feel threatened. Then there are those overbearing individuals who have the…
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Carol Gioia
March 21, 2014
Communication
All the people you encounter over time, whether at work or in your personal life, might not always agree with your point of view or acquiesce to your opinions. When someone does not share your perspective, it is permissible to disagree,…
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