Impressing a guy on a first date is important, because first impressions are the most important. You cannot get the first date wrong and then decide that you will put it right on the second date. There probably will not…
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January 14, 2015 Skin and Body
Splitting fingernails look unsightly but there are ways you can treat your nails to prevent them from splitting in the first place. Trying to paint over them to disguise it will not work. You need to prevent the splitting fingernails…
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January 12, 2015 Communication
Why are you with your partner? Do you love him as a person or are you simply unable to cope with being single? If you love him you will be happy for him to stay as he is. If you…
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January 12, 2015 Communication
The fact that you are asking yourself the question SHOULD I SETTLE FOR A LESS THAN PERFECT RELATIONSHIP OR MAN proves things are not 100% perfect. But they rarely are, even with couples that are totally compatible and in love….
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January 8, 2015 Marriage and Divorce
Whether or not virtual relationships take precedence over real life relationships depends very much on the person, their personality, their lifestyle and other factors that make up their life. Most people would prefer to have real life relationships where they…
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It is not your duty to support your elderly parents financially when the need arises, and I say this for many reasons. Firstly, they chose to have children when they had you and maybe other children, too. It was a…
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If one of a couple have had an affair and they are genuinely sorry they did so, then it is possible to repair things. Building up trust is vital as without trust there is no proper relationship. We all make…
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When advising teens on summer romances we need to remember that we, ourselves, were not angels, nor were we perfect, well behaved, unselfish or reasonable when we were their age. Any teenager who always does what is expected and wanted of them is…
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Sex can become addictive, for many different reasons. Women are sometimes very keen on sex because they love the sex itself and if they are “nymphomaniacs”…. a daft term used to describe women with a very high sex drive… they…
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How important sex is in a relationship will vary from person to person because men and women see these things differently and we all seek different things from a relationship. Often we are only concerned with what we want in…
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Bad sex can be turned into good sex. How? Firstly ask yourself if you have a partner who is worth the effort or if the partner is the problem. If you are with someone who is not interested in sex, or…
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December 5, 2014 Communication
SIGNS YOUR BOYFRIEND IS NO LONGER INTERESTED The signs are there, even if you pretend they are not. There is something about the way he behaves, the way he reacts, the way he thinks and the things he says that…
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December 1, 2014 Marriage and Divorce
SHOULD ADULTS STAY MARRIED REGARDLESS OF THE HAPPINESS FACTOR? If I have to give a definitive yes or no then I would say no for the simple reason that life is too short to waste on the wrong person or…
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November 14, 2014 Marriage and Divorce
There are many ways you can improve your marriage. Believe you me I do know about this subject, I have been married, I have lived with men, I have dated married men and I have worked as a relationship expert…
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November 12, 2014 Marriage and Divorce
I have been a relationship expert and life coach for many years, so I know for a fact that there are thousands of reasons for why marriages fail, because each marriage fails for a different reason or reasons. Why each…
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The true definition of romance will vary from couple to couple and person to person, but by and large it is about love, passion,lust and deep intense friendship. Very few couples truly feel that about each other and if they…
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When we first meet someone, it is easy to be swept away by the excitement of finding a new partner. We can often overlook the warning signs that that partner is not suitable or not worthy of us because we…
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IS HE YOUR TYPE: MR. RIGHT OR MR. WRONG? What a huge and important question. Let us assume that we have met a new potential partner and we are wondering if he is “the one”. Of course, this means we…
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October 24, 2014 Communication
There are two types of high maintenance women, and if you are very unlucky you meet one who is both types! The first type of high maintenance woman is the emotionally and mentally needy lady. She is usually insecure, highly…
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October 22, 2014 Marriage and Divorce
A husband’s behaviour can force a woman to be unfaithful. Of course, that works the other way around too, and a man might be driven to be unfaithful. But we are talking abut women who are married being unfaithful right…
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Having a perfect bath will not only clean you, it will also revive you, revitalise you, give you more energy and release any tension and stress you are feeling. Better still a relaxing bath is a wonderful experience when done…
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As we all know there are good mother-in-laws who are caring, friendly, considerate and fair. There are also the monsters we all hear about who try to interfere, demand your attention, are bossy or critical. One of the problems with…
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We have all heard the rather spiteful jokes about interfering, boring and evil mother-in-laws. Of course some mother-in-laws are absolute angels, with not a wicked bone in their body, a few live up to their wicked witch image. Whether you…
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September 18, 2014 Marriage and Divorce
Most affairs are not grounded in reality. Why? Because the reason the affair starts in the first place is because the person having the affair, the married one, is bored with their spouse and their home life. They are looking…
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September 6, 2014 Communication
Whether a husband tells his wife about his romantic past depends on the closeness of their relationship and if she also tells him about her romantic past. It would be very unfair of one of them to insist on knowing…
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September 2, 2014 Marriage and Divorce
Only a century ago marriage was compulsory. Any woman who did not get married was supposed to be an unwanted old maid. She would have to work, have disapproval from her family and have no chance of having children on…
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August 30, 2014 Friends and Peers
Being friends with co-workers can be a blessing or a curse. It seems to be fine when you are in the same department, rubbing shoulders on a daily basis, maybe working in the same room for seven or more hours…
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August 26, 2014 Friends and Peers
The two most important people in your life are usually your man and your best friend. You obviously value the relationships you have with your partner and your friends and need to keep them happy to keep them. You do…
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THE ROLE OF COMPATIBILITY IN RELATIONSHIPS It is all very well saying you are marrying your partner because you love them and they love you but even if we assume that you really do love each other, and it is…
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Women who are in a relationship often wonder whether or not they should move on and end the relationship. This can be because they have found they are bored by the relationship, or find they are not sure the person is…
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