Author Archive: Carmel Brulez - 538252

It was not that long ago that we were expected to get married, have children, raise a family and make the most of what would probably be a loveless and boring marriage. Now we have far more choice, options that…
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Some prefer being single, others are forced into it through the death of their spouse or divorce. Being single can be lonely and difficult at times but there are ways you can make sure that you can not only cope,…
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Some women are afraid of being single. This can be for all manner of reasons such as religion, appearances, hating the thought of being unwanted and unloved (‘left on the shelf’,) to please their family, because they have a child,…
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It is possible to be single and happy. There are lots of men and women who now choose being single as their lifestyle of choice. It is not something that has been forced on them because of divorce or the…
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Some people are best suited to being half of a pair and feel happier if they feel they have a partner. Others hate the confinement and restrictions that come with being a spouse or partner and much prefer being single….
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I have been married, lived with men and lived as a single person. Having worked as a private relationship expert and life coach, I have also advised and listened to lots of men and women about their lifestyles. Some people…
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There are some common online dating mistakes women make.   In an effort to compete with the many other women online they tend to make the following mistakes… *     Pretend to be much younger than they are.  This can be by…
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There are now thousands of dating sites you can join free of charge.  Some of them are totally free of charge, others just let you join for free.  Which is crafty, because if they get lots of people to join…
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We all make mistakes when looking for or entering into relationships.  We are humans and humans make mistakes.  But if we know what those mistakes are likely to be we have a chance of preventing them.  As men and women…
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There are certain ways you can work out whether or not your relationship is getting serious.  Although how long you have been seeing the person is not enough to gauge it on it’s own, if you have been dating for…
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It is tempting to stay in a relationship longer than one should. If we do it is either because we are hoping that although things look bad now they will improve late, or because we are scared of being without…
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When an ex wants you back it proves they feel they would be happier with you than without you. They have tried to be without you, they were with you before, they can measure how good one feels against the…
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You know it is the right time to leave a relationship when you no longer feel any happiness or peace of mind when you think of the future with your partner. You have tried to speak to your partner about…
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You have been dating him a long time and you sense that things have changed. You somehow know that he does not feel as keen as he did before. It hurts, it hurts a great deal. But it is best…
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If you have been with your boyfriend for a long time or you really enjoyed being with him, you will miss the relationship you had with him and want him to come back to you. But if he ended the…
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Breaking up is hard, it hurts even if you are the one who decides to end it. Somehow breaking up means you are admitting you have made a mistake, perhaps you have trusted someone who is not worthy of you,…
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There are five types of women who get dumped. They are 1. The one who is clingy, needy and demanding. Always wanting to know where you are, who you are with, why she cannot come with you or why you…
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When you are unsure of whether or not a relationship has come to an end you need to look at the various signals that are going on around you. If you are keen on your lover and you want it…
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Recovering after a middle-aged break up can be easier than recovering when young, and in some ways it can be a lot more difficult. We tend to be very conscious of our age and lose confidence as we age. There…
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Break ups are very difficult to deal with and can have all sorts of repercussions, but when they happen at work they can be even more complicated, serious and troublesome. If you were the one who ended the relationship and…
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WHEN DO YOU KNOW ITS TIME TO BREAK UP?. . . . . . . When there is more heartache, disappointments, sadness and negativity in the relationship than good things. Sadly your relationship has come to an end and you…
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Ending a relationship is never easy. You first need to decide that enough is enough. You are either bored stiff with them, or find them very irritating or you simply cannot stand their behaviour anymore. Now you have to decide…
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Getting over an ex boyfriend is very difficult, especially if it was he that ended the relationship and you wish you were still together. You may be hoping that somehow you will get back together rather than move on, but…
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This is an interesting topic… why women think men go for looks.  But I want to change this to why women KNOW men go for looks.  How do I know?  Because men love watching pornography,  strippers, lap dancers,  staring at…
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Wow. Things to consider when dating an older man.  Well you have found the right woman to ask, as I have dated many ancient… oops,  older men!  The truth is that I and many other women are not attracted to…
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There is a knack to getting a man you are dating for the first time to want to date you again. Certain things you should do and certain things you should not do.  Assuming that you have decided he is…
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When we fall in love it is easy to be swept away by the intense passion we feel and let things get out of hand.  One of the mistakes quite a few lovers make is to lose their own identifies…
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TEEN ADVICE: HOW TO GET OVER A RELATIONSHIP When a relationship comes to an end you are gutted, hurt, sad, feeling rejected and unloved. When you are a teenager or very young it seems so much worse. You believed this…
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