There are a lot of differences between eHarmony.com and Match.com. Having used both of these sites for a few months, it is clear to me that they both have their strengths and weaknesses. If you wanted to choose which one…
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Love on the web can be a many splendoured thing, but a rose also has thorns. What do I mean? That it is easy and tempting to try to find a new partner on the web, but it is also…
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Having used Match.com for a while I know there are good and bad to it. It’s nearest comparison/competitor is eHarmony.com, even though it is quite different to it. Match.com works by asking you to fill in a questionnaire. They them…
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Those who do not use online dating as a way to find a partner, and probably never have and know very little about it, tell us that only strange people, pervs and the desperate use it as a way to find…
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Match.com is a dating site which is widely advertised, for all ages and all types. You have to pay to belong to it and if you join for a year it works out to approximately £3 a week. I suggest…
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March 29, 2015 Friends and Peers
People who have low self-esteem tend to get into relationships with the wrong sort of people and for the wrong reasons. Their previous history of abuse leads them to become so lacking in confidence and the ability to make rational…
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We begin to get excited about life, ourselves and other people when spring arrives, bring with it warmer weather, beautiful coloured daffodils and tulips emerging from an otherwise dead and boring garden and talk of holidays. Everything seems to change as…
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Some people are put off of the idea of having a long-distance relationship because they see the whole thing as being impossible. To them, the huge distance is insurmountable and too big an obstacle. However, such relationships can work very…
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People can be incompatible with each other for all different reasons. Sometimes a couple can feel they are compatible and happy together and then years later change their mind because the things they thought they liked or could live with become a…
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When a relationship fails it is a very sad experience for both people involved. It is even more upsetting, confusing and traumatic when one wants to finish the relationship but the other wants it to continue. Sometimes, when this happens,…
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There are two types of lies and the reasons why people lie depend on which type they tell. With white lies the lie is said in order to stop the other person from becoming upset. When a friend of ours…
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March 19, 2015 Marriage and Divorce
Whether or not affairs are worth it depends on the person who is maybe entering into the affair, their lifestyle, who they already have in their life, and what they are seeking out of the present and the future. In…
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You love your partner and you are concerned that he still has feelings for his ex. You may well be worried that he wants to get back with her. It may not be a good idea to bring this up…
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WHAT NOT TO DO IN AN ARGUMENT… Arguments can be horrendous times that cause a lot of hurt and lasting injury, or they can sort out a problem so that it is totally resolved and the people are able to…
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When you are having an argument with someone that matters to you there should be some unspoken ground rules, so that things do not get worse than they already are. If you lose your temper you lose the argument, you…
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Abusive relationships happen all the time; you may even be friends with someone who is in an abusive relationship, but are unaware of it. What goes on behind closed doors is not always pretty or welcome. Millions of people over…
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Childhood abuse always affects every single child it happens to, and this will overflow into the rest of their lives. But if you ask an adult who has been abused as a child if it has affected them, many of…
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Is suicide ever justified? Yes. Not because I agree that people should commit suicide if they are unhappy or in a position where they cannot resolve a huge problem, but because it is their life and their choice. Whether I…
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You will find the holiday a lot easier to cope with if you tell yourself it is just another week, nothing special, and do whatever you would have done or want to do. If you are hurting and feel sad,…
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ADULTERY: WAKE UP CALL OR DEATH KNELL FOR A MARRIAGE Adultery has become virtually commonplace, so much so that we seem to view it as inevitable rather than something that we presume will not happen. We seem to enter into…
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Many relationships, sadly, end. Usually because one loses interest in the other rather than because of death. Why? When you ask the various victims of such failed relationships, those who are upset by it, they will say it was because…
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Whether you are married, living with someone or dating someone, whether it is serious and monogamous or casual and laid back, there are always signs that a relationship is over. When people say they did not see it coming and…
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Taking time off at the end of a relationship will give you time to get over the upset and sadness you suffered in your past relationship. It will also give you a much needed breathing space, so that you can…
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It is your first date and you want to impress the lady so that she wants to see you again. You hope that this first date will lead to many more and you may also be hoping that it leads…
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COOL THINGS TO DO ON A FIRST DATE Wow. How exciting, your first date! Now you have to decide how to spend the evening together. It is a good idea to make sure that whatever you do is something that…
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Whenever we get into a new relationship, we wonder if this is the right relationship for us. It can be very confusing, as we seem to be getting different signs, some telling us that the relationship is working, others that…
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Jewish speed dating is a great way to meet a lot of potential partners in a short space of time. By meeting a dozen or so in the same evening you have a chance to compare them, choose which one(s)…
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There are a lot of women who do not want relationships and prefer to be alone. With some of them it is because they have been hurt, used and let down so much they feel unable to love and trust…
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Nowadays there are a lot of people who live alone. Some have been forced to through the death of their partner or a divorce; others are waiting to meet the right partner, or prefer to live alone. Loneliness is one…
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Being single used to be frowned upon. A woman’s role and ambition was to find a man who would marry her. Bear him children. Then keep the house clean. His role was to go to work and pay the bills….
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