There are some important things you need to follow when seeing a serious relationship with a new and unknown person. The first thing to do is to be totally certain that you want a serious relationship and not something more…
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April 14, 2015 Friends and Peers
Friendship is an emotional bond you form with someone you are not related to. A true friend respects you, likes you and maybe also shares some of your interests, hobbies, values, opinions or lifestyle. You can trust a friend. They…
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April 14, 2015 Friends and Peers
You end a friendship when you feel that the ‘friend’ does not care about you, value or respect you, is not honest with you or becomes a total pain being very selfish in their behaviour towards you. . There are…
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Mastering the art of aloneness can be difficult if you are not used to or keen on your own company. Perhaps you used to be living with a partner, but you have become divorced or your partner has died, and…
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April 13, 2015 Friends and Peers
There are only 24 hours in a day and 7 days in a week and you probably spend a great deal of that on sleeping, your partner, family, work , church, hobbies and chores and do not have masses of…
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April 10, 2015 Marriage and Divorce
Whether a marriage is happy ever after depends on two things. The first one is that you pick someone who is mature, responsible, honest, reliable and caring. If you pick someone who is immature or selfish then it is a…
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April 10, 2015 Marriage and Divorce
HOW TO BE THE PERFECT WIFE A complicated question, as each man will have a different idea of what a perfect wife will be. A man who is obsessed with sex will want a wife who is insatiable and wants…
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April 9, 2015 Marriage and Divorce
WHAT TO KNOW ABOUT YOUR PARTNER BEFORE MARRIAGE: Even though many marriages end in divorce or end in sadness and boredom, many people still choose to get married. When we do we have a right to know who we are…
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April 9, 2015 Marriage and Divorce
Whether or not spousal consent should be required before a married woman has an abortion depends on the type of marriage and the reason she wishes to get an abortion. A loving, caring and responsible husband would want to know…
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April 9, 2015 Marriage and Divorce
Marriage should be redefined, because whatever we think we feel for someone and how we want the future to be with them we can never be sure that we will not change our mind later. It may all seem intense,…
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One wonders why women bother to get involved with unavailable men for as we know they are really on a hiding to nothing! The unavailable man may genuinely care about the woman, look forward to being with her and seeing…
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April 6, 2015 Marriage and Divorce
WHY GET MARRIED There are lots of reasons why people get married, some wise and others foolish, some of them only thinking about the here and now and others thinking ahead into the future. Because many people are human and…
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April 5, 2015 Marriage and Divorce
Even though marriage is not so necessary or popular now than it was fifty years ago there are still people who marry for the wrong reasons. Usually they are thinking of what they can gain from the marriage in the…
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How to get a date. I would like to rephrase that to HOW TO GET A DATE WORTH HAVING. It is easy to get someone who is desperate, weird, old, ugly, fat, boring, selfish and stupid to date you. Nobody…
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April 5, 2015 Marriage and Divorce
WHY WOMEN SHOULD MARRY AFTER THE AGE OF 25: Women who are younger than 25 are very unlikely to have a clear and informed view of relationships and men. They cannot have had many long term or serious relationships if…
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Your first date can be exciting but also quite scary. You want to make a good impression so that your date likes you and wants to see you again, so you are scared to say the wrong thing, scared to…
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Your first date is hopefully the beginning of a wonderful relationship. It gives you an opportunity to get to know your date and tell them what you want them to know about you. You want to make a good impression…
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The long-term effects of child abuse will vary from person to person, depending on what happened and their personality, but all of them will be affected deeply for years or maybe forever. It is easy to assume that a child…
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Anyone who has been the victim of childhood abuse will know how difficult it is to move on after. You have been abused, probably the worst and biggest thing that can happen to you. You are confused, hurt, angry, sad,…
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Whether it is easier to walk away or stay with a partner is violent is not really the most important question here. If you are with a violent partner and you decide to leave you should not be judged and…
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Every victim of abuse comes to a point where they think they just cannot stand it anymore. They will be torn this way and that. Part of them maybe still loves the person who is abusing them, part of them…
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Abusive relationships can lead to low self esteem. Whether it is a parent who constantly criticises their child for not doing their homework well enough and getting a low grade, or a husband who tells his wife she is fat…
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Choosing the right time to leave an abusive relationship needs some planning and courage. It is easy to tell yourself that things will improve if you leave them for a while, and we would like to believe this because change,…
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Love can be measured, although I am sure many would disagree with me. The thing is there are all different types of love and with some times of love it can be difficult to measure it. A mother may have…
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The art of face reading is called physiogonomy. Your facial features are supposed to say a lot about your personality, health or even how wealthy you are or would be one day. Certainly in ancient times it was common to…
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Whether or not every debate question can be answered with a simple ‘yes’ or ‘no’ depends on what the question is. Some are simpler than others. Do you prefer internet shopping? It is simple enough to answer with a ‘yes’…
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Being single need not be lonely or fraught with unhappiness or problems. Nor does it mean that you wanted to get married but were ‘left on the shelf’ and unwanted. I know a lot of women who adore being single…
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There is an art to writing an online dating profile so that other people are interested enough in you to pursue a relationship with you. In a way you have to approach it very much as you would applying for…
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All relationships need to be worked at so that they last and are happy. Online relationships need to be maintained so that they do not wither and die too. The most important thing when you are getting into an online…
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Whether or not we should pay to belong to a dating site depends very much on the calibre of person we want to meet off of sites. Having used lots of free sites and paid for sites for a while…
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