Author Archive: Carmel Brulez - 538252
Carmel Brulez - 538252
June 17, 2015
Marriage and Divorce
Being a better wife; better than who? All wives will have faults, as perfection can lead to boredom and predictability. Someone who is always perfect is flawed by that itself. If we do not have some bad days as well…
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Carmel Brulez - 538252
June 9, 2015
Dating
Having been a member of eHarmony for quite some time I know the pros and cons of belonging to this site. Having also seen other sites I can compare it. PROS – Although some people say it is expensive I…
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Carmel Brulez - 538252
May 28, 2015
Marriage and Divorce
The idea that your husband is cheating on you will anger you, scare you and make you spit feathers. You cannot be sure just yet so it may not be wise to confront him and accuse him when he may…
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Carmel Brulez - 538252
May 28, 2015
Marriage and Divorce
HELLO, I am a therapist and life coach who specialises in depression, anxiety, relationships and sorting out someones life so that they have peace of mind and happiness. A lot of people who claim to be depressed or unhappy do…
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Carmel Brulez - 538252
May 26, 2015
Dating
You are trying to get your man to commit. Tricky situation. What do you do so that you get what you want? You also need to be sure that he will not change his mind later. Asking him to commit…
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Carmel Brulez - 538252
May 21, 2015
Friends and Peers
Love is a strong pull towards someone irrespective of whether it is right or wrong or how the person behaves or treats you. You may love someone who neglects you, hurts you, uses you, cheats on you or is violent…
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Carmel Brulez - 538252
May 20, 2015
Friends and Peers
Getting people to like you is easy if you are yourself and do not put on airs and graces. You do not have to be the life and soul of the party, forever chatting, telling jokes, laughing and fooling around….
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Carmel Brulez - 538252
May 20, 2015
Marriage and Divorce
HOW TO FIND THE PERFECT WOMAN. What a cheek! If you give this some thought, it does not take that long to figure out that any woman who is perfect will also be intelligent, and if she is that intelligent…
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Carmel Brulez - 538252
May 19, 2015
Dating
You have seen her around and you like her, now you want to get her to like you so that she will go out with you. How do you do this? The important thing is to be polite to her….
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Carmel Brulez - 538252
May 18, 2015
Dating
When you like a girl enough to want to date her you know that you have to get her to like you too. If you are new to dating this can be quite scary. You are scared to say the…
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Carmel Brulez - 538252
May 18, 2015
Dating
Men need to know what a woman really wants in a relationship. Obviously there are lots of different types of women, young and old, rich and poor, but there are some things they ALL want regardless of type… They want…
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Carmel Brulez - 538252
May 18, 2015
Dating
Whether or not your partner is marriage material is a very important question and one you need to be sure about BEFORE you decide whether or not to marry him. Naive people assume that if two people care about each…
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Carmel Brulez - 538252
May 18, 2015
Dating
Having chemistry in a relationship is vital if you want the relationship to be sexually and physically satisfying, happy and lasting. Unless we want to be with a person where the relationship is more like a sister with a brother…
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Carmel Brulez - 538252
May 15, 2015
Marriage and Divorce
WHY YOU SHOULD NOT GET MARRIED: We all get opportunities to be with someone we can live with or marry. Whether we actually decide we want to marry them should depend on all sorts of reasons. It should not be…
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Carmel Brulez - 538252
May 14, 2015
Marriage and Divorce
We all need worthwhile, healthy relationships to complete us and make our lives more than just a lonely existence. Those of us who are married seek certain things from our spouse. We are making a very important commitment to them…
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Carmel Brulez - 538252
May 13, 2015
Friends and Peers
Whether or not the internet can damage a relationship depends on so much, the personality of the people concerned and how good their relationship was before. But yes it can damage relationships if one or both are willing to let…
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Carmel Brulez - 538252
May 10, 2015
Dating
Without realising it most of us end up repeatedly dating the same type of person. Most of us realise we have a type, whether we choose someone for their looks, money, sense of humour or brain. We think we are…
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Carmel Brulez - 538252
May 6, 2015
Dating
Meeting your girlfriend’s parents for the first time fan be an scary and confusing experience. It would be a good idea to remember that the parents are scared too, scared stiff that their daughter has brought home a druggie, an alcohol,…
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Carmel Brulez - 538252
May 6, 2015
Dating
Speed dating has been around for a few years now and is quite popular. It has a lot of advantages over the other potential ways of finding a lover or partner. It works by arranging a venue where people of…
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Carmel Brulez - 538252
April 28, 2015
Dating
It is important to remember that whatever your feelings are now and no matter how intense they seem they may change in a few days, weeks or months, but that does not mean that the rules or goal posts can…
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Carmel Brulez - 538252
April 24, 2015
Marriage and Divorce
As a relationship expert and life coach of many years experience I can honestly say there are lots of reasons why women return to cheating husbands. Which one applies to MRS X depends on her background, personality, religion and finances….
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Carmel Brulez - 538252
April 24, 2015
Marriage and Divorce
Falling in love with a married man is of benefit to the married man who loves the idea that a woman is going potty over him. Maybe his wife is madly in love with him and his other woman is…
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Carmel Brulez - 538252
April 23, 2015
Marriage and Divorce
Whether or not affairs are worth it depends on the person who is maybe entering into the affair, their lifestyle, who they already have in their life, and what they are seeking out of the present and the future. In…
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Carmel Brulez - 538252
April 20, 2015
Dating
REASONS A MAN WILL MARRY A WOMAN Depending on which man we are talking about, it could be for one of many reasons or a mixture of several or the whole lot. We are supposed to get married for love,…
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Carmel Brulez - 538252
April 19, 2015
Relationships and Family - Other
Platonic relationships have a lot of advantages over marriages and love affairs. The main one must be that you know that person cares about you and values you as an individual, that they wish to be with you purely for…
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Carmel Brulez - 538252
April 18, 2015
Dating
To have a successful relationship you need to stick to a proven workable formula. Just as you need to stick to a recipe when baking a cake. Each of us needs to alter that formula to suit our personality, needs,…
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Carmel Brulez - 538252
April 18, 2015
Dating
If you want to keep your man, and have a happy life with him, you need to learn how to please him. While it is obvious that all men are different some things will not change from man to man. …
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Carmel Brulez - 538252
April 18, 2015
Dating
How do you know if you have found your soulmate? Trouble is that you get too many false alarms. Red herrings, people who come along and seem to be the one and then turn out not to be. Or, you…
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Carmel Brulez - 538252
April 18, 2015
Relationships and Family - Other
Some people believe in love at first sight, others do not. I do not. Why? I have felt that intense feeling when you see someone the first time and I know it is lust, not love. You know what they…
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Carmel Brulez - 538252
April 18, 2015
Dating
It used to be “common knowledge” that anyone who had to go on a blind date was desperate, weird and unloveable. Thankfully people are now blind dating regularly and often, and this includes those who do not look like the…
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