Author Archive: Candy Jules
Candy Jules
October 21, 2015
Dating
In any relationship, trust has to be one of the most important values in order to make it work. When that trust has been broken by either person in the relationship, things will never be the same. There was a…
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Candy Jules
October 3, 2015
Friends and Peers
To have a good friend, you have to be a good friend. It’s a two way street. There has to be trust, loyalty, and a bonding that keeps you close. Real friendships are hard to find, let alone keep. True…
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Candy Jules
September 4, 2015
Crisis Support
Loving someone, sometimes means letting go. As painful as this is. No one but God and the person who is dying should have the right to make that choice. If a loved one is in a coma, or is brain…
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Candy Jules
May 23, 2015
Communication
No matter how you look at it, the truth is always the best. Sometimes the truth hurts, but so does a lie when it’s discovered down the road. Lies cause trust to be questioned, and rightfully so. With every lie,…
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Candy Jules
May 22, 2015
Communication
There are times in a family when the nature of a situation makes it impossible to reach any kind of agreement. I think that we’ve all lived so far apart for so long, that now that we are all living…
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Candy Jules
April 25, 2015
Communication
Expressing myself, is not from fear. I can say what I think without being afraid, It’s just hard to do this unless you want to start a family feud. Sometimes when I try to express myself to family, it all…
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Candy Jules
April 3, 2015
Crisis Support
Abuse is an unnecessary act that is done because of someone else’s problem. Nobody deserves that. I’d often wondered why a woman would stay with a man that supposedly loved her, but physically, and mentally abused her. And there is…
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Candy Jules
March 24, 2015
Communication
If you are a constant complainer, you are of a negative nature. Negativity will eventually destroy every relationship around you. No one wants to hear about your problems all the time. Whether people complain about their problems or not, doesn’t…
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Candy Jules
March 19, 2015
Dating
In our parents generation, there was no such thing as a divorce. Once married, always married. And with that knowledge, they worked harder at it than we do now. They believed it committment. They believed, for better or worse, in…
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Candy Jules
March 11, 2015
Family
Although parents are responsible for their children until they become adults, we are in no way responsible for their actions after they become adults. Every person was born with a mind of their own. Eventually they get to the place,…
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Candy Jules
March 1, 2015
Crisis Support
Life gives us no guarantees as to how and when we might be struck with tragedy. It can be from a long term illness, or an accident that takes life instantly. We just never know. Age makes no difference either….
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Candy Jules
February 2, 2015
Crisis Support
I’m not ready to pass as of yet, but my mother passed away two months ago, and even though she had made most of her arrangements, there were still a lot that was left. At the time, all of my…
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Candy Jules
January 2, 2015
Marriage and Divorce
I use to work at a pizza parlor at night, and for some time, my dad and the guy across the street use to get together and play guitars. I didn’t even know this guy existed. One day on my…
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Candy Jules
January 1, 2015
Crisis Support
It’s never easy to just walk away from an abusive person. It’s obvious there are already anger issues, and when they are crossed, they become more violent. Staying with someone who is violent can get you killed. It’s a very…
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Candy Jules
April 29, 2014
Marriage and Divorce
This is another one of those articles that should have a Both to it. We have responsible, loving fathers, and then there’s the dead beat dads. After all of the indifference’s in a divorce have been settled, and you can…
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Candy Jules
October 22, 2013
Family
A minister told me long ago, that you can only raise a child so far, teaching them right and wrong. After that, they have a mind of their own, and their own choices. We all make good choices, and at…
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