Author Archive: Can Tran
Can Tran
August 18, 2015
Dating
Anything in moderation is good. Anything in excess can be bad. Drinking in moderation is all right. Drinking in excess is bad. Eating pizza in moderation is good. Eating pizza in excess is bad and causes you to gain weight….
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Can Tran
August 18, 2015
Dating
That is pretty much one of the worst feelings a person let alone a woman could ever feel. Any person that is considered “good and decent” would feel extremely terrible and torn upon finding out something like this. If you…
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Can Tran
August 14, 2015
Dating
From what I have seen, an age disparity let alone a massive age disparity in a relationship can work.I myself have not experienced it before.But, I have met people who have been in relationships with age disparities. There was a…
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Can Tran
August 13, 2015
Dating
The story of “Cinderella” is one of the most famous of all the fairytales. It involves the main character Cinderella who lives with her stepmother and her stepsisters. However, they treat Cinderella like garbage. They make her do these mundane…
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Can Tran
August 13, 2015
Dating
If you want to know the warning signs that you are dating a sociopath, you should take the time and do a bit of research on the matter. If you have access to the Internet, you should do a bit…
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Can Tran
August 13, 2015
Dating
I have seen that relationships can work out no matter what the differences are. I have seen relationships in which one partner is liberal and the other partner is conservative. I have seen relationships in which one partner is of…
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Can Tran
August 13, 2015
Dating
Interestingly enough, I do believe in the concept of soul mates. However, I do not have the desire to get married and have a family. But, I do believe in the concept of soul mates.The term of a soul mate…
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Can Tran
August 10, 2015
Crisis Support
Contrary to popular belief, men can be abused. Here is a shocker. Then again, it should neither be shocking nor surprising. On that same note, men can be subjected to rape as well. However, there is somewhat of an interesting…
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Can Tran
August 7, 2015
Dating
If you are single, then you should be thankful for the most part. From what I have seen, there are far more benefits to being single than being in a relationship. However, the single life is not necessarily for everybody….
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Can Tran
August 5, 2015
Friends and Peers
Knowing when and how to end a friendship takes a combination of feeling and thinking. You are going to feel a plethora of emotions when contemplating on ending a friendship. It depends on how much you valued the friendship in…
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Can Tran
August 4, 2015
Friends and Peers
As we grow older and wiser, we come to realize that maybe our family members are not necessarily the smartest or the wisest. This world is constantly changing. It can change to a point that our family members are not…
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Can Tran
August 4, 2015
Friends and Peers
Having been around a lot of people and making a bunch of friends, I have come across good friends and toxic friends. So far, I am glad that I only had to deal with a few toxic friends. Since I…
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Can Tran
July 31, 2015
Dating
There are still plenty of people that still have sex with each other while after breaking up from a relationship. If they are both single: why not? Personally, I do not really see anything wrong with ex-lovers having sex with…
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Can Tran
July 31, 2015
Dating
Do you really want to quit your job for a guy? If you are contemplating and or deciding to quit your job for a guy, that must be one heck of a guy. You must ask yourself this one question:…
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Can Tran
July 29, 2015
Dating
In all of my twenty-six years, I have come to observe and analyze the differences between love and lust.There is a way to find out when it is either love or lust. The signs of lust are easy to point…
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Can Tran
July 28, 2015
Friends and Peers
If you lose your friend over his/her lover, ask yourself this question: Is it worth it? If it is worth losing your friend over his girlfriend, then perhaps you are not truly a friend. This is one of the things…
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Can Tran
July 28, 2015
Friends and Peers
I have always wondered why people want to control the lives of other people. There is a list of reasons that people try to control the lives of others. This could be for the following: fear/concern, greed, self-gain, boosting self-confidence,…
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Can Tran
July 28, 2015
Friends and Peers
I would have to say that interracial friendships can be very beautiful and very interesting. So far, I can say that almost one-hundred percent of my friendships are interracial. As an Asian, I find it interesting that most of my…
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Can Tran
July 23, 2015
Dating
This is one of the moments in where you need to set boundaries for your partner. Your religious beliefs are part of your personality.Your personality makes up for what type of person you are. In regards to relationships, your partner…
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Can Tran
July 17, 2015
Friends and Peers
I understand that the bonds of friendship are supposed to be very deep and virtually indestructible. However, friendship should not be the sole reason to take an action. I can understand the importance of friendship. But, you cannot allow it…
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Can Tran
July 17, 2015
Friends and Peers
Unless you are nave and oblivious, you should be able to easily spot who are true friends, sham friends, and toxic friends. You want to avoid the sham friends and toxic friends. They do nothing but make you feel mental,…
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Can Tran
July 12, 2015
Friends and Peers
Being friends first or just jumping into a relationship? That is a tricky question. The answer to this question is trickier though. To be honest, being friends first or immediately jumping into a relationship just happens. All I can say…
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Can Tran
July 11, 2015
Friends and Peers
The one major thing that can break up a friendship would be a breach of trust. The breach of trust can be defined as many different things. Just about anything you do to hurt your friend for your own selfish…
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Can Tran
June 15, 2015
Crisis Support
What does not kill you only makes you stronger. That is the case in most situations. However, each case is completely different. When it comes to getting stronger, it also extends to reclaiming ones self-esteem. In the case of an…
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Can Tran
June 14, 2015
Crisis Support
Being in an abusive relationship will cause the victim(s) many scars. Getting out of an abusive relationship is far more difficult than remaining in one. There are so many things the victim will fear. Those fears are more than enough…
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Can Tran
June 11, 2015
Dating
If you are a man, single, bitter, and looking for advice, perhaps you have come to the right person. The best piece of relationship advice for you if you meet most if not all of the criteria is this: stop…
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Can Tran
June 3, 2015
Dating
There is a distinct difference between flirting and cheating. One needs to know what the meaning of flirting is. Also, one needs to know what the meaning of being a flirt means. The definition of flirting is: the form of…
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Can Tran
June 1, 2015
Communication
Do we grow out of a grudge?The answer would be both “Yes” and “No.”The “Yes” part is already a given.The “No” part is a more complicated story. Grudges are extremely complicated stories at best from what I have learned and…
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Can Tran
May 31, 2015
Dating
When you get into high school or college, you should have already known what a “rebound” relationship is. I learned about it back in high school through a person I was in Drama and JROTC class with. I had nothing…
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Can Tran
May 29, 2015
Friends and Peers
What is a houseguest? A houseguest is defined as: a person that is going to be visiting your home for a varying amount of time. However, there is a difference between a houseguest and a tenant. A tenant is one…
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