Looking down the barrel of the shotgun, Jimmy decided, at that moment, it was in his best interest to fall in love with Kim, his girlfriend of the last year… Abusrd, huh? It’s just as absurd to honestly think you…
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October 26, 2015 Marriage and Divorce
“To have and to hold, from this day forward, for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness or in health, to love and to cherish ’till death do us part.”-Traditional Wedding Vows It’s a sad shame that, in…
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Ask 10 people what defines cheating and you will probably get 10 different answers in some shape or form. Obviously, if you catch your husband/wife or boyfriend/girlfriend in bed with someone else that constitutes cheating. I am going to come…
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We were not just good friends. We were co-workers and we were partners in crime. We would go out as just friends to clubs and hot spots and dance and do some innocent flirting but we never thought of each…
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Some people compare a first date to that of a job interview. I disagree completely. How many job interviews have you had that were fun? Exactly. In contrast, a first date is meant to be exactly that, fun and one…
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May 20, 2015 Marriage and Divorce
Why wouldn’t they? Fathers are just as capable of being good parents as mothers and vice-versa. Having said that, as with anything else, you have good fathers and you have bad ones. Now, before I dive into this head first…
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Cutting straight to the point can be daunting especially when it comes to asking out a complete stranger of the opposite sex (or the same sex if that’s your thing.) Don’t fret, there are some “tells” and suggestions that I…
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In the world of competitive dating what you don’t talk about is more important than what you actually talk about. Conversations steering towards politics, religion or your YouTube Star Wars video (starring yourself of course) is a quick way to…
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Lying in your bed with a bottle of bourbon while listening to ‘your’ song is not going to win back your ex; action and an evaluation at what you hope to accomplish is required. By action, I do not mean…
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Let’s be frank: most guys don’t know what the hell to do or where to go on a first date. Going to dinner and a movie? Please. Going to dinner and a movie just screams PREDICTABLE and LAME. Also, I…
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February 26, 2015 Marriage and Divorce
In a split second your whole world can be turned upside down and thrown into disaster…I am not speaking of any natural disaster but of a cheating spouse and in the case of the cheating spouse your life, as you…
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Anyone who claims to have sure-fire ways of picking up women at nightclubs are full of $h!t, period. Nightclubs are generally the worst places to pick up women for most men (falling slightly above a family reunion and below the…
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February 1, 2015 Crisis Support
Several years ago, I was enjoying an iced tea and conversation with a couple that I had been friends with for years when they got the terrible news that their 5 year old daughter was involved in an accident. In…
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Regardless of what any expert says or no matter how many self-defense courses you have taken…the numbers don’t lie. In some estimates as many as one (1) in six (6) woman are have ether been victim of an attempted rape…
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