Love Relationships
Yes, girls can love you. You might be overweight and homely or thin and graying or maybe you are just shy and unsure of yourself but it doesn’t matter. Girls can love you. It could be that girls just scare…
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Author Archive: Bill Woffington
Why Love is Blind
Perhaps love is blind because without that blindness we probably wouldn’t have survived infancy, let alone being a teen ager. Suppose a salesperson approached a reasonable, intelligent and happy couple. “Have I got a deal for you,” he exclaims. “I…
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Friendship Issues Advice
August 29, 2015 Friends and Peers
Lonely? Want friends? Are you tired of sharing your thoughts with just your dog? You are not alone. All of us have probably been there at some point in our lives. As much as we value our independence, it appears…
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There is Life after an ex
Unfortunately, this is not a sunshine and light message. This is a message from someone who has been there. This message says you can live, date again and be okay but you are going to experience pain and you are…
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Number of Friends – Large
August 9, 2015 Friends and Peers
Should I have a large group of friends or a small group of friends? I’m going to go with Large only because Small seems so limiting and Large is a lot less confusing. Large seems more like infinite. Small seems…
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Feelings of Insecurity in a Relationship
Having a problem in a relationship? Feeling somewhat insecure? Not sure how to handle yourself with your significant other? There is good news and bad news. The good news is that there is a way out. The bad news is…
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Afraid to Love
There are people in the world, in our block and possibly in our house that are afraid to love. The fear of love is not uncommon. Finding the ‘why’ of the condition isn’t hard. Finding help for the condition is…
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How to tell if a Girl Likes you
How to tell if a girl likes you? That is always a tough question for guys. I still can’t put the answer in a hard, fast, logical, rational format and I’m a guy who has been around the planet for…
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Can second Marriages Work – Yes
February 14, 2015 Marriage and Divorce
Can second marriages work? Sure they can. I know three couples, my wife and I included, who have been married more than ten years, still care for each other and have no intention of not staying together. All of these…
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Should a Wife have her own Bank Account
January 31, 2015 Marriage and Divorce
Should a wife have her own bank account? We have to assume the question was asked in fun; posed as an exercise in writing; a way of pretending that such a question actually has some validity. So let’s play. It’s…
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What should a Husband do to Make his Wife Happy
December 19, 2014 Marriage and Divorce
What should a husband do to make his wife happy? That’s quite a question. If that is meant to be a light and frothy title, this would be the place to list a lot of nice things a husband can…
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Should ex Lovers be Friends – Yes
August 29, 2014 Friends and Peers
Should ex lovers be friends? Why would they want to be anything other than friends? In my own life, I got married at a very young age and divorced 33 years later. We were best friends for a lot of…
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Frustration with Loved ones
“So, Hank. How are things?” “They could be better. In fact, they could be a lot better.” “Oh? What’s going on?” “I’m really frustrated, Frank. It seems as if I’m having problems with everyone I care for and, come to…
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Friendships Life and Change
July 9, 2014 Friends and Peers
Life affects friendships. We go or we grow or we marry or fight in wars or move across the country or change jobs or lose a job. We get sick, some of us die. Our values change. Our education changes. …
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How to get Older People to like you
How To Get ‘Older’ People To Like You Here is a topic I had to run by my Senior Citizen Friends for an answer. For the most part their answers weren’t very complimentary. “Forget it, Bill. You are just not…
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Can you Trust People 100
There are people who trust others one hundred percent. Most people don’t. Why is this? Why can some people trust others 100% and others don’t get there? Are there answers to that question from people who are considered to be…
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How to help someone in need
How should you reach out to someone in need? Thomas Plante, PhD said in an article published in the November 2009 issue of Psychology Today, that “Reaching out to someone in need should come from a position of solidarity as…
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How do Seniors Form Friendships
January 29, 2014 Friends and Peers
I was curious about the title ‘How Do Senior Citizens form friendships? Since I have some friends who are Senior Citizens I asked them. Almost without exception they laughed and asked me if I’d asked myself, since I’m older than…
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Ways to Show your Wife you Love her
November 16, 2013 Communication
Do you want to show your wife that you love her? You can always refer to the ‘everybody already knows them’ lists of things you can do. You know, the things like telling her you love her and buying her…
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