Author Archive: Bhavya Dabas
Bhavya Dabas
November 7, 2015
Dating
We’ve all been through the relationship that starts out as a seemingly perfect, meant-to-be thing, and then just evaporates into nothingness. At first, it seems like the end of the world. You feel like you’re done with dating and the…
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Bhavya Dabas
September 7, 2015
Dating
A novel or screenplay writer’s imagination can create things that don’t exist in the real world. The perfect man is one of them. A character created for a story is different from a character in the real world. The character’s…
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Bhavya Dabas
August 27, 2015
Dating
Everything in life isn’t black and white. There isn’t always a clear cut, yes-or-no answer to everything. Romance and romantic interest fall into the grey areas where things aren’t always perfectly clear. But, thankfully, there are a lot of things…
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Bhavya Dabas
August 25, 2015
Dating
Are people actually created in pairs, and marriages actually made in heaven? Is there someone out there who is just right for you, just perfect, just waiting to meet? As far as my experience goes, it doesn’t matter how closely…
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Bhavya Dabas
August 5, 2015
Dating
Love is a mysterious thing. Not only is it difficult to tell if someone else is in love with you, it’s not exactly a piece of cake when it comes to figuring out if you’re in love with someone. But…
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Bhavya Dabas
August 2, 2015
Dating
A romantic dinner for two is not necessarily about candlelight and expensive fine dining. Well, not just about these things, at any rate. It’s about being with each other, just the way both of you like it, and giving each…
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Bhavya Dabas
August 1, 2015
Dating
Being sexy, just like beauty, is in the eyes of the beholder. Guys appear sexy to women if they look like what the women would want them to look. A man has to be well groomed in order to be…
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Bhavya Dabas
July 28, 2015
Dating
A long distance relationship can be quite taxing for both partners. Even more so if they are in different time zones. In this technologically progressive world, distances have lost significance, and it has become increasingly easy to keep in touch….
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Bhavya Dabas
July 24, 2015
Dating
In a perfect world, we would all fall in love with somebody who’s perfect for us, who exactly matches what we are looking for in a partner, and that person would love us back and we would live happily ever…
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Bhavya Dabas
July 8, 2015
Dating
Do opposites attract? People say they do. But then, people also say that birds of a feather flock together. Sometimes, it seems as if opposites attract. For instance, suppose I am not a very outdoorsy or adventurous person, but I…
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Bhavya Dabas
June 25, 2015
Family
Puberty is a rather tricky time in the growth and development of a girl. She’s becoming a woman, she thinks she’s a grown woman, but her parents know that she’s not quite there yet. She wants more freedom to make…
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Bhavya Dabas
June 17, 2015
Marriage and Divorce
My husband didn’t let me do any of the housework for the first couple of months of our marriage. I feel that it made me feel loved, pampered, special. Six months into our marriage, I do the cooking and he…
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Bhavya Dabas
June 17, 2015
Marriage and Divorce
Telling your wife how much she means to you does not need to be an activity chalked out only for special occasions. Marriage is something that needs to be worked at every day, in our own special ways. You do…
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Bhavya Dabas
June 17, 2015
Marriage and Divorce
When is the right time to start having kids? That’s a tricky one. There’s no real right answer to that one, really. Different factors take importance for different people. But here are some general commonsense factors. Probably the most important…
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Bhavya Dabas
June 17, 2015
Marriage and Divorce
I don’t really believe that marriages are made in heaven and that people are created in pairs and destined to be together. Love and marriage are more about growing to know and understand each other, to appreciate each other, to…
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Bhavya Dabas
May 26, 2015
Dating
If the love and passion go out of a relationship, there’s still hope. The relationship can still be worked on. But if trust and respect are taken away, the whole foundation is shaken. Perhaps all is not yet lost; perhaps…
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Bhavya Dabas
May 14, 2015
Marriage and Divorce
Passion is what makes the early stages of a relationship exciting. The phase when two people can’t keep their hands off each other. When they give each other long, passionate kisses at every available opportunity. Make love whenever they have…
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Bhavya Dabas
May 14, 2015
Friends and Peers
Quality over quantity, I always say. That definitely holds true for friends. Our lives are busy, fast, full of responsibilities. We have a job, a home, a family to look after. In the middle of all that, we certainly manage…
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Bhavya Dabas
April 19, 2015
Relationships and Family - Other
Love is a deep, heartfelt emotion that goes far beyond butterflies fluttering about in your stomach and your heart thumping wildly. Love happens when you know someone inside out and still want to be with them. Love is when you…
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Bhavya Dabas
April 6, 2015
Marriage and Divorce
Breakfast in bed is a great way of telling someone that you know how hard they’ve been working and they deserve a break. It’s a way of showing them that this is their day off and they can linger on…
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Bhavya Dabas
March 29, 2015
Friends and Peers
How we wish life were simpler, and decisions easier. But it isn’t. It’s full of twists and turns and complications. One such complication is being faced with a choice between your friends and your lover. This is a situation where…
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Bhavya Dabas
March 2, 2015
Dating
It’s natural for everyone to encounter break-ups along the way to the relationship that is actually meant to be. When the break up is from a long, serious relationship, it becomes all the more difficult to recover from it and…
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Bhavya Dabas
March 1, 2015
Dating
It can be hard to admit that someone who was once very interested in you is now losing interest. All the same, it’s like any other bitter truth – something that you need to face up to and act upon…
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Bhavya Dabas
March 1, 2015
Dating
When in a relationship that doesn’t make us particularly happy, we tend to think that it’s better to stay in the relationship than to get out of it, because you’ve already put in so much time and effort in your…
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Bhavya Dabas
February 13, 2015
Dating
When you’ve just had your heart broken and are feeling lonely, it’s easy to get involved with anyone you feel even slightly attracted to, or anyone who offers even a little bit of sympathy and understanding. Because you are in…
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Bhavya Dabas
February 3, 2015
Marriage and Divorce
In a fairytale universe, they say that true love lasts forever. If it doesn’t, it’s not true love. Real life is, in some ways, very different from fairy tales. Even so, true love does last forever and “happily ever after”s…
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Bhavya Dabas
January 26, 2015
Dating
Breaking up is hard, and getting over the relationship and moving on is often even harder. But, the important thing is, no matter how hard it seems to be at first, you will get through it and emerge a stronger,…
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Bhavya Dabas
September 26, 2014
Dating
You want to find out as much as you can about this new person you’ve just met. You want to keep the conversation flowing easily. You want to find out whether or not this guy is likable enough to go…
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Bhavya Dabas
August 29, 2014
Friends and Peers
At my last job, I had a close knit group of friends with whom I had some great times. Being friends with your co-workers can do you a lot of good. It gives you an extra reason for wanting to…
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Bhavya Dabas
August 28, 2014
Friends and Peers
Love should always be based on friendship. There are a few lucky ones among us who are fortunate enough to fall in love with someone they’re already friends with. There are a few things that need to be thought about…
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