September 5, 2015 Crisis Support
I believe that in the mind of the person being abused that it is just easier to stay, because is it not the case that so often they remain with their violent partner far longer than they should? Sad, but…
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September 5, 2015 Crisis Support
Why do women tolerate abuse from their men? There are a few very prominent reasons that I know of. The first and foremost that I notice the most is denial. And denial can come in many forms. ‘He isn’t abusing…
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September 4, 2015 Crisis Support
I have very simple advice for abuse victims. These are words you hear all the time from any number of people, but they are the wisest words I can think of; get out. If your partner or husband hurts you,…
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Can long distance love work? Here is where I have personal experience all over the place. I think it can work, because for me it is working right now. For nearly three years I have been loyal to one man…
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August 10, 2015 Crisis Support
How do you prevent domestic violence? I can only think of one sure way in my opinion to do that; do not let it start to begin with. Some people might not be strong willed enough to keep it from…
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August 10, 2015 Crisis Support
Everyone has that mentality of ‘It can’t be me’ or ‘It can’t happen to me’. Even when it does happen to them they still try to deny it and think that this sort of thing just doesn’t happen to them….
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August 10, 2015 Crisis Support
Domestic violence is a sad thing that exists in this world. One of the things at the top of my list personally that I wish we could be rid of forever. The most important and hardest thing a victim of…
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What do women really want in a man? I am sorry boys, but that is a question that we women can never answer for you. Why? Because not all of us want the same exact thing. Oh, there are the…
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I believe that is, in part, human nature to be stubborn to some degree. A victim of abuse is actually one of the most stubborn people you can ever come across. It is a victim that can always find a…
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February 19, 2015 Crisis Support
Is suicide something that can be justified? I have heard this argument a few times before. Well, in the sense that the question is being asked here, no, it cannot be justified. Killing yourself in the name of fear, depression,…
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January 25, 2015 Crisis Support
Life after domestic violence. Is there really such a thing? The answer is; yes, of course. If you will allow yourself to have a life that is. Most abuse victims who have suffered great amounts of beats and verbal and…
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January 24, 2015 Crisis Support
I really have never understood why people have such a hard time believing that men can be abused too. It is possible. Less heard of, rarer maybe, but it does happen. I suppose most people see it as more likely…
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Are online daters real couples? As an online dater, I would say yes. I have been loyal to the same man, via online, for four years now and we are going onto year five. Most would question if it is…
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One of the forms of abusive relationships that people never seem to think of is abusive lesbian relationships. A lot of people assume it has to be a man abusing a woman. That honestly is just not true. Anyone with…
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The infamous “Dear John” letter is a concept that has been around for years. It is considered to be a letter that tells a man that his girlfriend or wife is leaving him. In a cliche, it is usually that…
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