October 12, 2015 Communication
I can’t speak for anyone else and maybe it’s just me, but some of my greatest communication problems have been discussing unfulfilled needs with my mate. I always get, “it’s never enough for you.” Well, YEAH! Especially when what he…
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When I read this title, ‘How to Keep The One You Love’…tons of thoughts crossed my mind. I felt like I was counting sheep to fall asleep. If you’re in a relationship that is going well for the both of…
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Every relationship has its ups and downs; periods of highs and lows are often prevalent. Some couples can even gain victory through overcoming the most arduous of challenges. However, the most difficult of challenges in a relationship is maintaining patience…
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September 6, 2015 Marriage and Divorce
A number of reasons come to mind on why I believe some black women don’t marry. Some of them may have taken that journey…and, for whatever reason(s), they choose not to travel that road again. Maybe, some were turned off…
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There’s not much difference between active speaking and active listening. The obvious is: active speaking is made up of verbal and physical communication skills; whereas, active listening involves non-verbal and physical communication skills. THE ACTIVE SPEAKER The experienced active speaker…
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From whence comes the purpose of anyone’s life? Does it come by choice, by chance, or by design? Whether that purpose is fulfilled, or not…there is a purpose for each and every one of us. When we choose our relationships,…
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The best first date conversation starters are the ones that got a couple to initiate the first date in the first place. Interest just doesn’t begin with a ‘first date’. There needs to be an attraction to begin with: an…
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I have (in my possession) break-up boxes, photo albums and other memorabilia (from past relationhips) stored; framed photos still line my coffee table to remind me of the tremendous growth I’ve experienced since those relationships terminated; and, it is okay…
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May 30, 2015 Friends and Peers
There is nothing nice about being ostracized. It doesn’t feel nice, and personally speaking…I have little patience and respect for those who practice ostracizing others…no matter what the reason. I’ve been there, and know how it feels. And, from my…
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Communicating effectively beyond smalltalk is a skillful tool we can all use in any environment. When mastered…it can be used to break the ice in a one-on-one situation, or it can be used to positively create a name for yourself…
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May 19, 2015 Marriage and Divorce
HOW TO COPE WITH A PARTNER’S ADDICTION~ There are so many addictive behaviors that I could not begin to scratch the surface of all of them. Some addictions are so minor and easy to cope with that they’re often overlooked…while…
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April 24, 2015 Marriage and Divorce
Trusting a man’s devotion is one thing; believing he can love only one woman is another. When a man’s love and devotion is sporadic, it may be an indication that his interests are divided. A real man’s love and devotion…
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April 9, 2015 Marriage and Divorce
There is no ‘offense’ that is more powerful than a ‘strong defense’. The most effective way of escaping the affects and power of an offender and his offenses is to change the way you think about them. Forgive, let go,…
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Grief is one of those things that is universal…and, can (sometimes) wear a heavy burden on the hearts of both parties…the one who is grieving, as well as the one who gives support. The best way I can think of…
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February 17, 2015 Communication
How to tell if someone is lying to you You can tell if someone is lying to you by their lips moving. Everyone has told a lie here and there. However, if you suspect one is lying about something in…
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I voted ‘yes’ on this debate. I believe what Proverbs 22:6 tells us. It instructs us to “Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it.” No matter…
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Keeping in mind that ’50 Something’ IS the “NEW” ’30 Something’…mature women over 50 HAVE romanced just about every aspect of life that exist, including men. They have no problem adjusting to new romantic ventures. But, before I get into…
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There are benefits to being single that are better managed prior to marriage, and will (ultimately) benefit you in your marriage as well as your spouse. That is…if the thought of being married has been seriously entertained. If so, these…
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October 19, 2014 Friends and Peers
Should ex-lovers be friends? Be of the same mind one toward another. Mind not high things, but condescend to men of low estate. Be not wise in your own conceits. Recompense to no man evil for evil. Provide things honest…
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September 8, 2014 Communication
Body Language: How to tell when he is not interested Assuming the ‘he’ we’re talking about here is someone significant in a woman’s life, it takes being in denial not to know when your man is no longer interested in…
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September 4, 2014 Communication
A man that is truly interested in a woman sends signals that can only be interpreted by his prey. Some gestures are subtle, while others are blatantly bold. I worked in the same plant with a man for 7 months…
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Is it always easy to treat others as you wish to be treated? I would venture to safely say that it is not easy (at all) to treat others as you wish to be treated; if for no other reason…
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The risks of remaining single There are a number of risks in remaining single that many of us do not consider. And, although many of us view singleness as freedom, independence, peace of mind and contentment there are other aspects…
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