Stay-at-home moms are at a disadvantage when it comes to recognition. They’ve probably never got all that they truly deserve but can feel even worse about it today as we’ve come to view so much of life in values borrowed…
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There are so many responsibilities that go along with bringing up children, it’s often hard for couples who are together to find a good balance. When parents separate, issues of responsibility are thrown more sharply into focus. But disputes over…
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First date jitters are natural but there’s no need to make it more stressful than is already is. A first date is just that – a first. You don’t have to cover everything in one go. At this stage, exchanging…
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Whether you mean it or not, your spouse can read messages into you discussion of past lovers – messages about his standing in your eyes, and also messages about you as a partner. They can wonder what it is you…
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January 10, 2014 Marriage and Divorce
For generations, unhappy couples believed it was better to delay or even forgo separating for the sake of the children. Keeping the original family was seen as the primary factor for children’s security and wellbeing. What this view doesn’t take…
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December 16, 2013 Friends and Peers
Seeking advice and coming away disappointed can make you feel worse than you did before. Advice that doesn’t work isn’t necessarily “bad”, it’s just not right for your needs at the time. Like any other role, you’ll get better results…
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You listen intently as your friend describes the situation which has got her so upset. As you ready yourself to speak, you hope your voice will communicate comfort and reassurance. But what should you actually say? At this point, you’re…
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Sometimes it exasperates and sometimes it stings. It’s hard to appreciate how many gaps we leave in conversations, taking for granted that that listeners will read the rest between the lines until you meet someone who doesn’t. It’s easy to…
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